Love her....
Stephen, I have a difficult situation now. Look at my marriage. I'm really worried. My wife and I just don't have the same feelings for each other that we used to have. I guess I just don't love her anymore and she doesn't love me. What can I do?
The feeling isn't there anymore?
That's right. And we have 3 children we're really concerned about. What do you suggest?
Love her.
I told you, the feeling isn't there anymore.
Love her.
You don't understand. The feeling of love isn't there.
Then love her. If the feeling isn't there, that's a good reason to love her.
But how do you love when you don't love??
My friend, love is a verb. Love - the feeling - is a fruit of love, the verb. So love her. Serve her. Sacrifice. Listen to her. Emphatize. Appreciate. Affirm her. Are you willing to do that?
"The seven habits of highly effective people, Covey"
